The Ins and Outs, Dos and Don'ts of Flying with an Infant

photo: flickr by Kossy@FINEDAYS'

I like to think that my son has become quite the little veteran at taking plane rides. His first flight took place at 2 1/2

weeks old. I wouldn't advise exposing a newborn to all the germs of an airplane flight, but we were moving, and it was necessary. We took an hour and a half flight, followed by a 2 hour flight. His next experience was at 5 months of age. We took a 45 minute flight, followed by a nearly 3 hour flight, then the same for the trip home. We'll be flying again in about 2 weeks. Here are some tips I've picked up along the way...

1. This one is absolutely critical. Book a morning flight. Always, always, always fly in the morning with an infant. My husband and I made the mistake of taking a flight which did not land until around 10 pm. As good as your baby might be, do NOT mess with bedtime routines. Our son screamed his lungs out for 20 minutes before finally falling asleep on that flight. Meanwhile, on morning/afternoon trips, he has happily played and napped through them.



2. Be prepared to nurse or bottle feed on demand. My baby has never showed discomfort from the pressure change, but some babies have a harder time. If your little one likes a pacifier, be sure to bring a few. If breastfeeding, don't forget a nursing cover to provide modesty while nursing in such close quarters.



3. Bring quiet toys. A little noise is ok- rattles and keys are a lot of fun to bang on the tray. A giggling Elmo or constantly singing stuffed animal, however, may be much more bothersome to other passengers. If your baby needs this, though, use them, because no toy noise is as bad as a fussing baby.



4. If baby gets bored with the toys you brought (I recommend packing one or two brand new ones) ask the flight attendant for a plastic cup. It is something new and interesting that may at least entertain your little one for the time being.



5. Relax. There is a real possibility that your child will have meltdown if your flight is of any substantial length. Babies cry- it's just what they do. How you handle yourself is much more important. Take deep breaths and try not to let your baby sense any stress you're feeling. Ignore glares from other passengers. Most of the time, however, other travelers are sympathetic rather than judgemental. Just do what you would normally do around your own house to calm him/her. Walk the aisle if you're able. Sing a lullabye. If nothing works, just wait out the storm. Despite what you may think they don't scream forever. Other passengers can just get over it.